{"id":594,"date":"2008-09-27T22:33:00","date_gmt":"2008-09-27T22:33:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dljones.com\/?p=594"},"modified":"2008-09-27T22:33:00","modified_gmt":"2008-09-27T22:33:00","slug":"is-sarcasm-a-sex-linked-trait","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.dljones.com\/?p=594","title":{"rendered":"Is sarcasm a sex-linked trait?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The question that occurs to my twisted mind is simple &#8211; is sarcasm and a tendency to be sarcastic related to the sex of the group involved? There are clearly other factors involved such as size of the group, etc., but let&#8217;s restrict ourselves to groups of less than 20 people here.\u00c2\u00a0This question comes to mind based on my own observations.\u00c2\u00a0<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>The first observation is that when I am with a group of guys, sarcasm is both prevalent and well accepted. If the group gets large enough, sarcasm is still accepted, but is more and more subject to misinterpretation.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>The second observation is the continuing contention on the part of my lovely spouse (<span>of the female persuation<\/span>) that sarcasm is both unpleasant and <span>never<\/span>\u00c2\u00a0an appropriate response. \u00c2\u00a0This seems to be a response shared by most females in mixed groups.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Finally, I have no direct experience of the all female group dynamics, but my informants tell me that sarcasm is not held in high esteem there either. \u00c2\u00a0Thus it would look a lot like the sitation is<\/p>\n<div><\/p>\n<table border=\"1\" cellpadding=\"5\" cellspacing=\"5\" width=\"100%\" align=\"center\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<th align=\"center\"><\/th>\n<th align=\"center\">Sarcasm OK<\/th>\n<th align=\"center\">Sarcasm Iffy<\/th>\n<th align=\"center\">Sarcasm No<\/th>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>All Male Group<\/td>\n<td align=\"center\">X<\/td>\n<td align=\"center\"><\/td>\n<td align=\"center\"><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>All Female Group<\/td>\n<td align=\"center\"><\/td>\n<td align=\"center\"><\/td>\n<td align=\"center\">X<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>Mixed Group<\/td>\n<td align=\"center\"><\/td>\n<td align=\"center\"><\/td>\n<td align=\"center\">X<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p><\/div>\n<div>Since I am by nature and temperment a sarcastic person, I have had to work hard to overcome my natural tendencies. One of the things I have learned in my years of dealing with the press and the public is that sarcasm does not work well in public bodies \u00c2\u00a0In fact a sarcastic &#8220;<span>You bet<\/span>!&#8221; can be taken by the press or a public audience as a serious reply, usually with disasterous consequences. \u00c2\u00a0For example, if asked &#8220;Do you support requiring all people to drive blindfolded?&#8221; and you answer with the obvious sarcastic &#8220;<span>You bet<\/span>!&#8221;, you can be assured that the headline in the next days paper is &#8220;<span>Mayor Supports Blindfolded Drivin<\/span><span>g<\/span>&#8220;. \u00c2\u00a0(<span>In fact, you can be sure that not only a headline in 24 point bold screams across the masthead, but that an editorial will appear on the op-ed pages decrying what an insane idiot the mayor is. Ask me how I know.<\/span>)<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>I guess that leaves me with only one place to be my standard sarcastic self &#8211; in small groups of my male friends. \u00c2\u00a0Oh well. \u00c2\u00a0I might manage to train myself to hold it in with other groups before I die.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Comments? (And can someone enlighten me of a method of creating tables in the Blogger interface without hand coding them? \u00c2\u00a0Preferably built into the Blogger interface. Thanks.)<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The question that occurs to my twisted mind is simple &#8211; is sarcasm and a tendency to be sarcastic related to the sex of the group involved? 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